Buddy Statement Examples: What Good Looks Like
Why we do not publish fill-in-the-blank templates
VA raters read thousands of buddy statements and recognize the paragraphs that circulate on veterans' forums. Statements that read as if drafted by someone other than the writer are heavily discounted — sometimes to zero probative value. Publishing a template would not help; describing the features of a strong statement does.
Feature 1: Specificity of observation
Strong statements name dates, places, units, and specific events. Weak statements use vague phrases like 'during our deployment' or 'sometime in 2005.' The rater is looking for the kind of detail a real memory would produce.
Feature 2: Opportunity to observe
The rater must be able to see how the writer knows what they know. 'I served in the same squad from January 2004 to June 2006 and shared a tent with the ' establishes opportunity. 'I have been the veteran's spouse since 2002 and share a bedroom' establishes opportunity for post-service sleep observations.
Feature 3: Layperson voice
Strong statements describe what the writer saw, heard, and did — in the writer's own words. They do not opine on medical causation ('this caused his back pain'), diagnose ('he has PTSD'), or use clinical terminology the writer would not naturally use.
Feature 4: Internal consistency with the record
A statement that contradicts the without acknowledging the contradiction is discounted. If the record says 'no back complaints' and the writer describes constant complaints, the writer should explain why (e.g., 'we all knew you didn't go to sick call because you'd lose your slot on the deployment').
How to prepare a writer without scripting
- Tell them what the is about, in general terms.
- Ask them to write, in their own words, what they personally saw or observed.
- Ask them to include dates, places, and how they knew the during the relevant period.
- Do not draft the statement for them, and do not edit their language beyond obvious typos.
- Have them sign VA Form 21-10210 to include the certification language.
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Where these claims break down
- ×Sending the writer a paragraph to copy — VA raters spot this quickly.
- ×Asking a lay writer to diagnose or opine on medical causation.
- ×Leaving out the dates and specifics that establish opportunity to observe.
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